最新Unit 13 Marriage课文翻译综合教程四
欢迎来主页下载
---
精品文档
精品文档
I’ve jumped out of the frying
-pan
Into the blooming fire.
3
No
difficulties?
Why,
the
very
nigger-minstrels
of
my
boyhood
used
to
open
their performance with a chorus which began:
Married! Married! O pity those who’re married.
Those who go and take a wife must be very green.
4
It is possible that the comedians exaggerated, and that Victorian wives were not
all viragos with pokers, who beat their tipsy husbands for staying out too late. But at
least
they
and
their
audiences
refrained
from
painting
marriage
as
an
inevitable
Paradise. Even the clergy would go no farther than to say that marriages were made
in Heaven. That they did not believe that marriage necessarily ended there is shown
by the fact that one of them wrote a “best
-
seller” bearing the title
How to Be Happy
Though Married
.
5
I
doubt,
indeed,
whether
common
opinion
in
any
age
has
ever
looked
on
marriage as an untroubled Paradise. I consulted a dictionary of quotations on the
subject and discovered that few of the opinions quoted were rose-coloured. These
opinions,
it
may
be
objected,
are
the
opinions
of
unconventional
people,
but
it
is
also true that they are opinions treasured and kept alive by conventional people. We
have
the
reputed
saying
of
the
henpecked
Socrates,
for
example,
when
asked
whether it was better to marry or not: “Whichever you do, you will repent.” We have
Montaigne writing: “It happens as one sees in cages. The birds
outside despair of
ever getting in; those inside are equally desirous of getting out.” Bacon is no more
prenuptial
with
his
caustic
quotation:
“He
was
reputed
one
of
the
wise
men
that
made answer to the question when a man should marry: ‘A young man not ye
t; an
elder man not at all.’” Burton is far from encouraging! “One was never married, and
that’s
his
hell;
another
is,
and
that’s
his
plague.”
Pepys
scribbled
in
his
diary:
“Strange to say what delight we married people have to see these poor folk decoyed
into our condition.”
6
The
pious
Jeremy
Taylor
was
as
keenly
aware
that
marriage
is
not
all
bliss.
“Marriage,” he declared, “hath in it less of beauty and more of safety than the single
life
-
it hath more care but less danger; it is more merry and more sad; it is fuller
of
sorrows
and
fuller
of
joys.”
The
sentimental
and
optimistic
Steele
can
do
no
better than: “The marriage state, with and without the affection suitable to it, is the
completest image of Heaven and Hell we are capable of receiving i
n this life.”
7
Rousseau
denied
that
a
perfect marriage
had
ever
been
known.
“I
have
often